Sex

My girlfriend Jenn can count two from her past, I know I’ve got one in there, Annie has a couple, and my friend Lynne says she can actually recall three of these situations.

I come back to the topic of Facebook and relationships A LOT. Only because it's so prevalent in our lives these days--you can find almost anything out about a person on social networking sites and see what's happening to them on a regular basis. But I think don't think that's helpful. It actually causes problems in dating.

I suddenly know what people mean by timing in relationships. I used to think they meant timing, as in, both people had to be ready to commit to each other or to want a family and a life together. But now I’m convinced that’s not the real problem. In fact, I’m fairly certain most people want to eventually get married or settle down and have a family because that’s an inherent feeling.

Who gets absolutely loaded, I mean, smashed, can’t stay awake and wobbly drunk when they’re trying to impress someone?

Ladies…I’ve heard a lot of horrible first date stories, but last night I think I heard the worst one yet. I’ll tell you right now, when you’re on a first date with a guy not only should you watch how many drinks you have (as not to look like a bimbo or get taken advantage of), but you should watch how many drinks he has too!

I got to meet a new addition to my friend Rachel’s family this week—Baby M. He’s tiny, cute, and as precious as any child should be. He’s also Rachel and her husband’s FIRST baby. That means they are learning about each other in ways they never even imagined and actually, one of the comments I heard from Rachel was, “When you have a baby, you realize just how good (or bad) of a relationship you have with your partner.”

I write about a topic that most people (unless they aren't human) are interested in--Love and Sex. It's also a topic that can be a little, hhmm, embarrassing, too revealing, ackward, not professional...you know--it's definitely not something you want to bring up around people you don't know, your elders, or anyone that you're trying to present your respectable self to...but it's my job to write about it! 

I just got an email asking if I think it’s best to wait to lose your virginity till you’re older…as in early to mid-twenties older.

Hhhhhmmm. That’s a really tough question. If you asked me that when I was 18, I would have said waiting that long is ridiculous because you learn so much about yourself and your relationships when you’re intimate.

I just read this. It's supposedly "What Women Want"...so after you read it. Scroll down and I'll break down what I think women want. ;) 

What Women Want In A Man # 1: They want to be taken care of.

You don’t have to treat her like she’s made of glass. Respect her own abilities and trust that she can make it out on her own.

My friend Rebecca was in town last week, just visiting and having a good time, until she woke up one morning and realized something wasn't right...down there. Her stomach felt a little sore, she didn't want to walk much, and it kind of burned when she would pee.

No she didn't have an STD...she had a fairly common woman problem--a urinary tract infection.

I was looking at a website called Leftos.com--a forum where men and women can have open conversations about things like dating...and sex. And I just happened to come across this conversation on Oral Sex: http://leftos.com/opinion/view/97.

So guys, let me tell you something--women like when you go downtown on them. Yeah, sure some women are a little paranoid--maybe they haven't freshened up or haven't groomed lately, but those are the only real reasons why a woman wouldn't want you to use your mouth.