Advice

Dear Sexy Siren,

Dear Sexy Siren,

I’ve been talking to this guy for almost a month now and have been going out with him for like two weeks and I’m starting to like him.  And on some occasions he has told me that he likes me too! So my problem is that I text him and he either takes forever or he just doesn’t text back and I don’t want him to play games with me, but I just don’t know how to tell him. If I text him I don’t want him to think that I bug…
Sincerely,
Text Queen

Dear Text Queen,

So sometimes I spy on other Love/Sex/Dating writers and websites…and you wouldn’t believe the kind of crap relationship advice that is out there! I’ll tell you, just because someone has a PhD, doesn’t mean they should be telling others how to date. I’m just sayin…

For instance, I was on the Today Show website and came across this Q & A between some poor woman with a MAJOR issue and Dr. Gail Saltz. This is her problem:

I've been dating this guy for about six months, but the only thing is that he lives like 8 hours away and I only see him like once a month. I'm not used to being in a relationship like that and like 2 months ago I recently saw my ex and we hooked up. At first it felt wrong, but now I'm talking to him again and we're hooking up and it feels so right, but I'm kinda scared because our relationship wasn't the best. He's willing to change for me and he's willing to drop everything just so we can be together. I just don't know how to break up with my current boyfriend...

I got an email asking for advice:

What’s the best tactic to nab a man—play hard to get or show your interest? Hard to get, right? Wrong! Turns out we’ve been given some bad advice and it could explain why there’s so many single ladies out there these days.

I spoke with Relationship Life Coach, Gabrielle Bernstein, in New York City and she shared some news with me—being a biatch doesn’t work.