I promised I was not going to go into the Britney/Lohan/Paris world, but I have to. Rumors are spreading regarding Britney Spears appearing at this Sunday's Primetime Emmy® Awards broadcast on FOX (8/7 CT). Guess what for? She will apologize for her unforgivable /unforgettable performance at the MTV Video Music Awards. In case you missed it, watch the video and let us know if Britney should even consider appearing on television until she cleans up her act and put herself together.

After all, it is her choice. But who cares? Well, FOX cares (really? of course, they live on that), NBC's Co-Chairman Ben Silverman does (I heard he liked Britney's performance at the VMAs) and the Academy does (if they allow this it wil be REALLY sad). Britney, I hope you don't do it and/or the network and the Academy change their mind.

P.S. CLEANING UP YOUR ACT means NO drugs, NO party, NO drinking, NO making a fool of yourself, NO showing your bald vagina to the world, and getting help. But help actually helps only when you want.

P.S. CARING means stop using others misfortunes, mistakes and crying for help to make money or get ratings. It is very low and unethical, only if you care.

Remember teenage love so good it made your heart hurt?  The kind that made your belly warm and solar plexus tingle? The kind that made you smile so wide, your teeth and tongue dried up?

You know.  The kind that made, even “good” girls (and boys), want to “lose it”. (ha! lose what , I ask?)

Now, imagine if you were HIV positive.  

New York original (cause these days, no one that lives here is actually from here) Andrea Williams’ debut film, A Spoonful of Sugar tells that teenage love story.

And it is absolutely beautiful.  

HIV-infected teen, Patrice, navigates first love, sexuality, stigmas, secrets, and responsibility while still managing to captivate us with her courage, raw honesty, and yes- innocence.  Shot in 35mm and edited on Final Cut Pro by Bill Mack of Diaspora/Aerolith Studios, Spoonful is New York coming of age tale that manages to combine grit, light, and a beautiful cast of black and brown characters.  Silvestre Rasuk (Raising Victor Vargas) plays the love interest of newcomer Noelle Gift, who plays the HIV-infected Patrice, born with HIV which she contracted from her mother. 

An official selection at a number of international festivals, including the Independent Feature Project (IFP-NY) Film Festival, Toronto Film Festival, and London Film Festival, Spoonful is also the recipient of numerous awards and accolades.  The fresh-faced cast and complex approach to exploring the life of an HIV-affected young woman speak for itself.   Featured as part of the Reel New York Film Festival, hosted by Channel 13, A Spoonful of Sugar is one of 29 independent films and videos “by New Yorkers and about New Yorkers”.  Thirteens’ Reel NY Festival airs A Spoonful of Sugar tonight at 10 pm on Ch. 13 (WNET-NY).  If you miss it, simply catch it online at on Thirteen’s website.

According to the I Stand With Magic campaign which seems to have hit bus stops and public gathering spaces all over New York City, 81% of all peoples living with HIV/AIDS in New York City are African-American and Latino.  Women of color, we know, represent the growing number of new cases.  If you’re a New York Boricua, then you also know that Unidos Dandole Cara al Sida (United Giving a Face to AIDS) has been raising hell about the recent federal cuts to HIV/AIDS funding on the island and its impact on treatment, social and support services, and HIV/AIDS focused agencies who are now soliciting support from across the nation for the AIDS crisis in Puerto Rico.

Mi gente, DO SOMETHING!

And as for my sister, Andrea Williams, keep your eyes and ears open. I promise that you’ll see her work soon, at a theater near you. 

Not for nothing but Jeff Ross killed it. People got open on Snoop and Ice T cause comedy isn’t their thing and they held it down, but truth be told Ross was in it to win it. It’s crass humor, but it’s funny ass hell…. “Starving children send YOU 50 cents a day!”
-vee ski

Ive previously written about superhead's newest book, and every body knows about Carmen Bryants (Nas' baby momma) book…..but what I wanna know is….whose got next when it comes to the tell all's?

Out of a few of TMZ's most popular females like Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian, Nicole Richie, Hilary Duff, Lindsey Lohan, Britney Spears…..wow….there's so many to pull from imma just stop there LOL…….who do you think is next in line for a crazy tell all?

 Personally…..I would be interested in a Tell all book from Lil' Kim. Biggie, Junior Maffia, Faith Evans, Sprite Can's……that book would be bananas!!

You men out there who think it's useless to have a female non-sexual companion need to think again.  The friend with the real benefits is the friend that can show you how the female mind works.  Think about it.  You can see things through the eyes of a woman.  If only for a moment, who cares, you still get that insight.  You can also have the ability to emote fearlessly.  In the early stages of a relationship, you might be reluctant to show any emotion, let alone meaningful ones.  With a female plutonic you can emote away without fear of embarrassment or lost love.  Most importantly you can hone up your listening skills, and women LOVE THAT.  You’ll experience intimacy without getting, you know, intimate.  All her talking will train you in the invaluable art of listening, which-I can guarantee this-will coax the pants off some woman in your future.