I write about a topic that most people (unless they aren't human) are interested in--Love and Sex. It's also a topic that can be a little, hhmm, embarrassing, too revealing, ackward, not professional...you know--it's definitely not something you want to bring up around people you don't know, your elders, or anyone that you're trying to present your respectable self to...but it's my job to write about it! 

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I just got an email asking if I think it’s best to wait to lose your virginity till you’re older…as in early to mid-twenties older.

Hhhhhmmm. That’s a really tough question. If you asked me that when I was 18, I would have said waiting that long is ridiculous because you learn so much about yourself and your relationships when you’re intimate.

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My friend John is having a hard time. He’s a single guy (and it doesn’t look like he’s getting married any time soon. No girlfriend either) and all of his friends are starting to marry off. This didn’t seem to bother him much until he started noticing that he wasn’t being included in the group anymore. Well, not as much.

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I have never dreamed of getting married. Nope. I’ve just never been into it.

Funny thing is, it’s not the actual marriage part that I have an aversion to, it’s the actual planning of a wedding. I am not the girl who wants to walk down the aisle knowing I spent a year of planning and a small fortune on my big day. I was thinking more along the lines of Italy: maybe Positano, the beach, 10 friends and family, and renting a wonderful condo overlooking the ocean for a week. That sounds like a fun getaway that we will all remember, right?

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You never want to be the person who likes the other more, especially when you first start dating. You know...the one who hopes and wishes that this relationship will turn into something serious, while the other isn't quite sure how he/she feels in general. Being the puppy dog sucks.

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I just read this. It's supposedly "What Women Want"...so after you read it. Scroll down and I'll break down what I think women want. ;) 

What Women Want In A Man # 1: They want to be taken care of.

You don’t have to treat her like she’s made of glass. Respect her own abilities and trust that she can make it out on her own.

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My friend Rebecca was in town last week, just visiting and having a good time, until she woke up one morning and realized something wasn't right...down there. Her stomach felt a little sore, she didn't want to walk much, and it kind of burned when she would pee.

No she didn't have an STD...she had a fairly common woman problem--a urinary tract infection.

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